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dannixfresh
Age. 32
Gender. Female
Ethnicity. Filipino
Location , CA
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flaws.
Sunday. 9.8.13 1:32 am
I hate when people point out my flaws. I hate that you can see them so clearly, written all over my words and actions. I hate it because I can't accept them. I don't like being reminded of the things that I suck at, or the things I do wrong.

And even if someone says what flaws I have is something they accept about me, it still annoys me. I don't want to be this way. I don't want anyone to be able to see this character trait I have. It isn't flattering, and it isn't something I like about myself.

I know people say you can change if you want to. And to some extent you can. But if you don't realize the flaw you have is so blatantly obvious, how can you even change it?

Even this blog points out my flaw. Damn.
4 Comments.


Pointing out people's flaws is lame and rude.
» le_battement on 2013-09-08 02:15:14

I don't particularly like it when people criticize me, but if they're pointing out my flaws in a way that isn't really aggressive it can be a starting point for self improvement, I guess.
» randomjunk on 2013-09-08 02:15:57

Having flaws pointed out to you that you're oblivious about can be good, but I still think that it's rude to give unsolicited criticism, and many people don't want to hear it at any given time.
» le_battement on 2013-09-08 06:11:15

All things should be said in love. So yeah if people are just telling you things to put you down, that's no good. However, it's a good idea to keep people around that you're open to hear criticism from. My roommates and I are pretty good about being open about our own flaws with each other, and helping each other address those issues. It's all about mutual respect, love, humility (from both sides) and not judging. Hiding or ignoring real flaws is the wrong way to go, though!
» middaymoon on 2013-09-09 03:37:02

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